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How to Stop Getting Fake Friend Requests on Facebook

Posted on November 12, 2018November 12, 2018 by elfworld

Fake friend requests

I’m sure you’ve received them too. Friend requests from sexy bikini clad women who suddenly wants to be your friend. Or maybe you’ve received a friend request from a smiling man from Nigeria, who desperately wants to be your friend, so that you can help him with some money transfers? 

For a while I received 10-11 such requests per day. However, over the last two years, I haven’t received a single one. And this despite me hearing others talk about how many they get. However, there is a way to stop receiving such requests. And you can stop them via this very simple trick:

  1. Go to your Facebook settings:
    Settings
    .
  2. Choose Privacy in the left side menu:
    Privacy
    .
  3. Find the section called How people can find and contact you:
    How people can find and contact you
    .
  4. Behind Who can send you friend requests? you find a link called Edit. Click on it:
    Edit
    .
  5. In the drop down menu that appears, choose Friends of friends:
    Friends of friends

 

Now only people who are friends with any of your friends can add you on Facebook. This completely eliminated the problem I had with such fake friend requests.

Let’s say you meet someone in real life who wants to be your friend, but she can’t add you because you have no friends in common. In that case you can just go to the setting above and change it to Everyone.

I did just this yesterday after meeting a woman in Paris who wanted to add me. However, it took only ten minutes from I changed that setting until I had my first fake friend request! So I immediately changed the setting back again after my new Facebook friend had been added.

What did you think about this tip? Good? Bad? Want to add something? Use the comment section below!

7 thoughts on “How to Stop Getting Fake Friend Requests on Facebook”

  1. Stephanie simpson says:
    November 12, 2019 at 05:20

    How could I set up a questions for people wanting to send me a request and if they answer wrong it rejects them. That would be super helpful

    Reply
    1. elfworld says:
      November 12, 2019 at 08:10

      That’s a good idea. However, AFAIK, Facebook does not offer this functionality.

      Reply
  2. Michael Angelo Justiniano says:
    April 10, 2021 at 01:44

    Thank you SO MUCH!! I was getting several fake requests EACH DAY… This really solved the problem!

    While we’re at it, might I add that another similar problem is receiving fake group messages on Instagram. To solve that, just go to Settings > Privacy > Messages > Allow others to add you to groups > Only people you follow.

    Finally may I live to see a spam-free day! Thanks again

    Reply
    1. elfworld says:
      April 10, 2021 at 10:45

      Happy to help! 🙂

      Reply
  3. Lise says:
    June 16, 2021 at 17:41

    Thanks for your valuable help.

    Reply
  4. Marcie says:
    April 27, 2022 at 17:29

    How do you stop illegitimate friend requests? I got one for my sister who died 6 years ago.

    Reply
    1. elfworld says:
      April 27, 2022 at 23:32

      Change your sister’s account into a memorial page. You can also set that only friends of friends should be able to send her friend requests.

      Reply

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